2025/07/18
With Every Journey, Japan Gently Changes Me

While traveling through Japan, I came to a quiet realization: the beauty of Japan isn’t just found in its scenery or traditions. Yes, the cherry blossoms are breathtaking, and the food is exceptional. But after several visits, I began to notice that something inside me was slowly changing. Gently, yet unmistakably, my senses were becoming more refined.

On my first trip, I was captivated by how different everything felt. I packed my schedule with sightseeing and rushed from place to place. But by the second visit, I found myself walking more slowly. I paused at unfamiliar corners to listen to the wind. Before passing through a shrine gate, I instinctively straightened my posture. I took time to savor a rice ball from a convenience store while sitting quietly on a bench. These actions weren’t learned behaviors—they came from a shift within me.

In Japan, “the unnoticed” is deeply valued. Muted colors, silent spaces, words that gently match the atmosphere around them. The time spent engaging with such subtleties becomes time spent looking inward. You begin to feel that you don’t need to raise your voice or say too much—something meaningful is still conveyed. And somehow, in this quiet space, your behavior and way of speaking begin to transform.

I also realized that my way of traveling had changed. Instead of following a strict itinerary, I began to embrace chance and flow. If it rained, I’d duck into a café and enjoy a book while listening to the gentle patter. I’d stop by a small shrine I discovered on the way to somewhere else. I’d buy a single piece of seasonal fruit at a local market and eat it slowly by the riverside. In these moments of unplanned stillness, I felt the richest.

In Japan, the phrase “a life lived with care” is often heard. It doesn’t mean doing something extravagant or extraordinary—it simply means treating the present moment with a bit more mindfulness. Holding a teacup with both hands, aligning your chopsticks neatly, placing your shoes carefully before stepping inside. These small actions seem to bring a quiet order not just to your surroundings, but to your heart as well. And even after the journey ends, those habits stay with you, gently becoming part of your daily life.

Whenever I feel swept away by the rush of everyday life, I find myself recalling my travels in Japan. The stillness of a temple courtyard, the view from a nearly empty train, the soft scent of incense at a morning inn. These quiet memories act like a brake, reminding me to pause. To take a deep breath. To slow down. Japan is the kind of country that gives you that gentle reminder, without saying a word.

Travel is not just about checking off famous landmarks. It’s also about aligning your senses, resetting your inner rhythm. Japan taught me that. The scenery doesn’t necessarily change with every visit—but I do. Bit by bit, I become someone a little different. And that’s why I want to return again.

I might not plan anything special for my next trip. I just want to be in that atmosphere again—the one that accepts my quiet transformation. Japan is a place that brings you closer to the person you want to become. That, I believe, is why people are drawn back to it, time and time again.